Vaginismus is before sexual intercourse or vaginal intercourse mouth and the vagina, 1 / 3 muscle groups in autonomous non-violent and persistent contraction, leading to cramps vaginal mouth shut. As the penis can not be inserted but not sexual intercourse, the penis or inserted into the vagina after a spasm, leading to the penis can not pull out. At this point, if men forced insertion or removal, will be fierce because genital friction, and the impact of a strong pain of the sexual intercourse. Vaginismus and excitement of the vagina, 1 / 3 of the upsurge and narrow the vaginal muscle contraction rhythm is completely different. The former is a pathological response of the body, while the latter is the sexual nature of the physiological process of reflection. Vaginismus is actually the body's resistance to sexual intercourse a kind of "protection" of reflection, the problem in the psychological behavior. There vaginismus Most of the women are wrong, and rigid "sex education", and "indecent" and "immorality" and of "indecent for women against men," and so on negative information already in their mind deep-rooted , Difficult to shake off. Or they have had the unfortunate experience of life, sex life and had been living in the brutal treatment, even by the unfortunate性侵害犯罪harm. In this way, in their eyes, sexual intercourse is terrible and painful. Thus, vaginismus has become a protective response to resistance to sexual intercourse. To the treatment vaginismus, the most important thing is psychological treatment, making them correct the wrong concepts about sex, and heal their psychological trauma. In the treatment of sex and the use of desensitization therapy: Let them from small to large, from shallow to deep experience and to accept the insertion of the penis, vagina of the house. So that they could gradually eliminate vaginismus, a new start a normal sex life. While in treatment, can take mild sedative (in Chinese medicine better, no side effects) treatment. Desensitization therapy: every night before going to sleep, so that he or his fingers, or some special smooth small round wooden sticks in diameter, respectively: o.5cm, 1cm, 1.5cm, 2cm, 2.5cm, 3cm. Every day with your fingers or small wooden sticks painted lubricants (adult shop on sale) inserted into the vagina, the first from the beginning. 7-10 days for the big one. About 15 minutes every day to do about. Let the vagina slowly to accommodate the habits of the insertion, so that when inserted into 3 cm of sticks do not have no time, you can conduct a normal sexual intercourse.
